Astute readers of both my post and hers will note how similar these two lists actually are in content if not in voice. For the sake of clarity, I’ll preface this list with an explicit remark about how it’s not intended to reflect anything other than a generic exploration into what I believe submissive men want from dominant partners, and should therefore not be interpreted without salting to your own taste, so to speak.
In fantasy and play, however, you are not afraid of asserting such behavior.
Part of that pursuit is making the effort to build a common understanding of things between us, and I need you to make an effort to refine this understanding with me over time.
Doing so will make it possible to interact with me as a dominant partner, a top, and a friend, all of which you need to be able to do.
Your dominance cannot be your dirty little secret; my submission isn’t mine.
You may be excited by taboo but you don’t rely on it to provide enjoyment (because very little is taboo with me).